Munyika yakakwana, murume wako weramangwana aizokuponesa kubva pakurohwa nerori yeUPS paunenge uchinetseka kuti usunungure Gucci slingback yako kubva kune sewer grate. Iwe waidonhera mumaoko emumwe nemumwe uye ipapo iye, chiremba wekuvhiya (kumashure kubva kune Vanachiremba Vasina Border rwendo, zvakangoita), akatarisa mumaziso ako ndokuwira murudo zvakadzika. Asi iwe hausi JLo, uye Matthew McConaughey akaroora-urombo, madzimai. Uhwu ndihwo hupenyu chaihwo, uko kuwana wekufambidzana naye kunze kwesango kushoma sekuwana Gucci iri kutengeswa. Pane kudaro, vanhu vazhinji vari kubatanidza kuburikidza nekufambidzana maapplication zvekuti ivo ndivo nhamba yekutanga nzira dzinosangana nevaviri, maererano a Stanford University kudzidza .
Kunyange izvi zvichitipa tariro, tinoziva kuti kufamba neWorld Wide Web yenzvimbo dzekupfimbana kunogona kunetsa uye kushungurudza kutaura zvishoma. Ndokusaka takasvika kune 12 vakadzi chaivo kubva kumativi ose enyika vakakwanisa kuzviita zvinobudirira uye vakavabvunza kuti vape mazano avo epaIndaneti akanakisisa. Uchenjeri hwavo, pasi.
1. Tsvaka mumwe munhu anoita kuti zvikunakire
Mirira uyo anokubvisira nzira. Semuyenzaniso, pazuva redu rekutanga, Joey akava nechokwadi chekusarudza nzvimbo pedyo nefurati yangu uye panguva yakaita kuti zvindiitire nyore. Ini ndaigara kuUpper East Side panguva iyoyo, uye aigara nzira yese zasi muHell's Kitchen (inova New York kure ) Zvakandiratidza kuti aindifarira uye neupenyu hwangu—uye zvainzwa zvakasiyana chaizvo nemafungiro okuti ‘Hei, ngatisanganei’ aunowanzowana pamapurogiramu okupfimbana—izvo zvakatungamirira kumakore mana nehafu taroorana uye 19 - mwanakomana ane mwedzi. - Amy D., 35, Bronx, New York
2. Vadimbure kana vasiri kukutumira mameseji zvakare
Ndakarambana-mushure mekuroora mudiki-saka zvaityisa kuyedza kufambidzana maapplication kekutanga mukupera kwe20s. Asi ndakadzidza kubva muwanano iyoyo yokutanga kuti ndakanga ndisingadi kutambisa nguva pamunhu upi noupi asingasvasvaviriri kazhinji kazhinji zvakakwana. Ndinofunga kuenda kumazuva kwakanaka, uye iwe anofanira enda pamazuva kana uchifarira munhu wauri kutumirana naye meseji, asi kana akasakutumira meseji nenguva yakafanira, ingoenderera mberi. Chero ani zvake anoda chaizvo kukuziva achaita kuti zvive pachena. - Carra T., 29, Los Angeles
3. Kanda mhando yako panzira
Ndaiudza shamwari dzisina kuroorwa kuti dzive nepfungwa dzakavhurika uye usaende kune imwe 'rudzi.' Pandakasangana nomurume wangu akanga ava murume, ndaidzungaira pamhando dzose dzinovaka muviri nokuti, panyama, ndizvo zvazviri. Ndakapinda panguva iyoyo. Unogona kufunga kuti unongokwezvwa nevakomana veblonde vane vhudzi rakaita saThor kana kuti chero munhu mupfupi pane 5'6' haasi mubvunzo. Asi kunyemwerera kwemurume wangu papikicha yake yairatidza kuve kwechokwadi uye mutsa uye zvakandikwevera mukati, saka ndakamupa mukana uye ndinofara kuti ndakazviita! Takachata hedu muna Mbudzi. - Megan K., 40, Lexington, Kentucky
4. Bhadhara nzvimbo yacho kana iine vanhu vaunoda kufambidzana navo
Pandaive online kufambidzana, ndakaenda kune matani emazuva eHinge, senge pamwe mazuva maviri ekutanga pasvondo, asina kumbosvika akawanda. Pakupedzisira ndakatora zano reshamwari yangu yepamoyo, uyo akandiudza kuti kana ndaida chaizvo kusangana nemukomana aikoshesa nezvehukama hwenguva refu, ndaifanira kubhadhara kuti ndive pane imwe nzvimbo yekufambidzana-iyo isingachashandi. Isu. (Asi akabhadhara kufambidzana nzvimbo nhasi anosanganisira Match, eHarmony, JDate, etc.) Ndakaenderana neanoyevedza chaizvo, 6'4' murume aida kunditora kunze kwemac uye cheese newaini-mweya wangu, obvi. Pave nemakore mashanu nehafu kubva musi iwoyo uye handina kumbopinda zvakare. Takaroorana mwedzi mina yapfuura! - Meredith G., 31, New York Guta
5. Isa maapps pasi paunenge uri padate nemumwe munhu
Kuti upe zuva rekutanga-kana chero zuva, chaizvo-mukana wekutumbuka uye kukura kuva chimwe chinhu chaicho uye chine musoro, unofanirwa kudzima zviziviso pamaapplication ako ekufambidzana kuitira kuti urege zvinokukanganisa iwe uine mumwe munhu. Iwe haugone kuvepo zvizere pazuva nemunhu mumwe uchiwana meseji nyowani kubva kune mumwe munhu. —Amanda B., 37, Dallas
6. Enda kune akajairika mufananidzo mukomana anofanana nehupenyu hwake
Izvo zvakakosha kuti uedze kufunga kuti munhu ndiani pane kungotarisa pane mumwe munhu nekuti mufananidzo wavo unotaridzika zvakanaka pabutiro re GQ . Mapikicha emurume wangu zvino aive akajairika uye asina kuwandisa sezvakaita vamwe vazhinji. Panzvimbo yekuenzanisira misoro, aive nemifananidzo yake nembwa dzake (zviri pachena chiratidzo chokuvimbika ) uye yekutanga kicheni selfie. Bio yake yakanga yakajairika zvakare; haashandire chitsama chinopenga kana kuenda kunoshanya kwese kwese kwevhiki. Anodya pizza uye anonwa whisky. Ndakatengeswa! —Lauren N., 31, Long Beach, California
7. Usazeza kusiyana kwetsika
Mushure memakore mana ekufambidzana, makore matatu kana muchato uye zvino ndine mwana munzira, ndinogona kutaura kuti ndinofara kuti ndakatora mukana nekufambidzana kwepamhepo uye nemumwe munhu akasiyana zvakanyanya neni. Ndakapinda mairi ndine pfungwa yekuva akazaruka uye kubvuma kusiyana ikoko, uko kwanga kusiri kudiki tichifunga nezvemhuri yangu uye isu tinobva kuRizal, purovhinzi iri kunze kweManila muPhilippine, uye Mike anobva kumhuri huru yeItaly kuNew. Jersey. Asi kugara takavhurika kune zvakatiita kuti tisiyane uye kudzidzisana nezvetsika netsika dzedu zvakatoita kuti tive pedyo zvakanyanya kupfuura zvandaitarisira. —Dia M., 36, Somerset, New Jersey
8. Nyora pasi zvinhu zvese zvauri kutsvaga muhukama
Unofanira kuziva mhinduro kumubvunzo wokuti ‘Uri kutsvakei?’. Ini handingambove iye wekuzvibvunza uye ndaingogara ndichifunga kuti yaive mubvunzo benzi, asi murume wangu paakandibvunza kuti paBumble mushure mekunge tatotaura kwechinguva chidiki, airatidzika semurume akatendeseka uye akatwasuka. (he is!), saka ndakamuudza chokwadi kuti ndaitsvaga munhu ari serious nezveramangwana. Zvakazoonekwa kuti ndiyo yakanga iri mhinduro yaakanga achitsvaka! Saka usatya kuve wakatendeseka uye bvisa vakomana vasina kurongeka-kana zviri izvo zvaunoda. Takavimbisana kuroorana pashure pemwedzi mipfumbamwe ndokuzoroorana mwedzi mipfumbamwe pashure pacho uye tave taroorana kwerinopfuura gore zvishoma. —Alex P., 29, Manchester, New Hampshire
9. Ita shuwa kuti yako yakakosha tsika dzakajeka pamberi
Ndakambozeza kuedza kufambidzana neapp-based uye handina kusvetukira pabhenji kusvika gare gare mumutambo nekuti kutenda kwangu kwakakosha kwandiri uye ndaisaziva kuti ndaizosefa sei varume vasina. govera iyo yakakosha kukosha. Ndakasangana naFranz mushure memavhiki maviri ndiri paBumble, uye takasarudza kusangana kune tacos mushure mekungotaura paapp kwemaawa mashoma nekuti tese taive pamberi zvakanyanya nezvekutenda kwedu kuve chikamu chikuru chehupenyu hwedu. Zano randaizopa shamwari dzangu dzepamhepo dzepamhepo nderekuti uve nechokwadi chekuti wakajeka uye wakatendeseka nezve yako hombe dhiri breakers, uye kuti usambopira yako yakakosha tsika uye zvaunotenda kune chero munhu. Ini naFranz takafambidzana kweanoda kusvika makore matatu mushure meizvozvo, uye takachata mwedzi wapfuura! Isu tava kugara pamwe chete nekatsi dzedu, Tuna uye Wasabi. -Alexandra V., 28, Sacramento, California
10. Chengetedza nhaurirano dzinonakidza dzemazuva chaiwo ehupenyu
Kubudirira kwangu kukuru nemazuva chaiwo andakasangana nawo pamapurogiramu akauya nekufambisa zvinhu kubva pafoni yangu kuenda kuhupenyu chaihwo nekukurumidza. Chinjana mameseji mashoma kuti uve nechokwadi chekuti unonzwa wakachengeteka uye uchifarira, asi wobva wauya nehurongwa hwekuzivana mumunhu nekukurumidza. Nguva shoma ndaipedza mavhiki ndichitumira mameseji kana kutumira mameseji nemunhu wandakanga ndisati ndaona, uye panguva yatakasangana, zvaiita sekunge taita mibvunzo yese yekukuziva-iwe pamhepo, uye zvakabva zvadonha. . Chimwe chinhu chakabva chandikwezva kune chikomba changu ndechekuti, mushure memashoko akati wandei, akandibvunza pakarepo aine nzvimbo uye nenguva. Kusarudza kwake uye zvinangwa zvake zvakajeka zvaizorodza. Vanhu vanogona kuve vakanyanya-dimensional pamaapplication. Kupa mumwe munhu rubatsiro rwekuona mufananidzo wakazara mumunhu ndiyo nzira yakanakisisa yekuzvigadzirira kubudirira. —Megan G., 27, New York City
11. Tora zororo
Kutendeseka, ini ndinofunga chinhu chekutanga kuramba uchiedza asi usatya kutora zororo kubva pamhepo kufambidzana paunenge uchichida. Ndakaita sendakatarisa pasi pedombo rega rega kuti ndiwane murume wangu uye zvakandipedza simba, saka ndaifanira kusimuka kwevhiki kana kupfuura nguva nenguva. Kudzokororwa kweaya mazuva ekutanga ayo dzimwe nguva aishamisa, asina kugadzikana kana akatwasuka-akaipa akandisiya ndichinzwa kukahadzika. Ndakasiya mazuva mashoma akaipa! Asi handina kusiya zuva randakaenda naro newandaizofambidzana naye—takava negore taroorana—nekuti ndakazvipa nguva yokuungana pashure pezvakaipa kuti tionge zvakanaka. —Jess A., 43, Baltimore
12. Taura neshamwari dzako nezvese kufambidzana app yako yakakwirira uye yakaderera
Zano rangu kune chero munhu ari kudhibha, kushambira kana kunyura mu online dating dziva nderekuti igungwa kupfuura dziva. Zviri pamutemo munhu wese ari kuzviita, uye isu tese tinofanira kunge tichitaura nezvazvo. Taura neshamwari dzako! Govera kushushikana kwako, kunetseka kwako, mafaro ako, kuderera uye kukwira, kunyanya kana inonzwa senge hofori yakafa magumo nekuti zvakaoma kuramba uchizviita kana yaora moyo. Kutaura nezvazvo kune utano—mupfungwa nomupfungwa. Zvichida mumwe munhu waunoziva ari kusangana nechinhu chimwe chete kana kuti ane 'I can top that' inotyisa date nyaya inoita kuti useke. Chiripo ndechekuti pane chiseko chakatenderedza kufambidzana pamhepo icho chisingafanirwe kunge chiripo nekuti iyi haisiriyo pfungwa itsva. —Kailah B., 32, Albany, New York
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