Baba vepachikoro chesekondari vachangopedza vari kumutsa gakava rakapararira rekurera vana mushure mekugovana kusafara kwavo nezvishuwo zvemwanasikana wavo.
Baba, ndiani akagovera nyaya yake pa Reddit's AITA ( Am I The A ****** ) forum, akatsanangura chikonzero nei ainzwa kuti mwanasikana wake akanga ane udyire nokuda kwekuda kupinda chikoro cheIvy League.
Iye zvinonzwisisika pamusoro pemwedzi, baba vakadaro nezvemakore 18 okukura, uyo akagamuchirwa Harvard .
Mutsamba yavo, baba vakaenderera mberi vachitsanangura kuti, kunyangwe kudada kwavo pamusoro pekubudirira kwemuyaruki, aitenda kuti anofanirwa kugara padyo nevabereki vake uye kuenda kune yakachipa - asi ichiri huru - yunivhesiti iri kumusha kwemhuri.
Mafungiro ake, zvisinei, aiita seanopatsanura vabereki nevatauri vezera rekukoreji zvakafanana.
‘Akagumbuka kuti hatingamufarire’
Redditor akaenderera mberi achitsanangura kuti iye nemukadzi wake vanga vachisundidzira mwanasikana wavo kuti apinde chikoro chehurumende, sezvo aizova pedyo nerutsigiro rwake. Pamusoro pezvo, aizochengeta mari yakawanda pachikoro uye mubhadharo.
Ichi [mu-nyika] chikoro chakachipa zvakanyanya uye ane bhezari inomubhadharira zvese tuition, kusasanganisa muripo nemabhuku ekuverenga, baba vakanyora.
Mwanasikana wake akanzwawo kuti nharo hadzina basa nekuti vabereki vake vainge vasiri kuronga kumubhadharira mari yechikoro.
Mwanasikana wangu akagumbuka kuti taisagona kumufadza, uye anoti sezvo tisiri isu tinomubhadharira isu hatina chatinotaura, baba vakanyora. Ndinonzwisisa pfungwa iyoyo…
Baba vakacherekedzawo kuti mwanasikana wavo mudiki, ane makore gumi nemaviri, aizotorerwa gwara kubva kuhanzvadzi yake huru kana akatamira kune imwe nyika.
Ini ndinofunga isarudzo yekuzvida uye ndakaudza mukuru wangu kudaro, asi izvo zvakatowedzera kutsamwa, akawedzera.
'Edza kumufadza'
Vachinyora kuti dzimwe nhengo dzemhuri dzinoverengeka dzanga dzichikorokotedza mwanasikana wavo vasina kana kumbofunga nezvezvainoreva, baba vacho vakabvunza vashandisi veReddit nezvemaonero avo. Vazhinji vaitsoropodza zvikuru, vachiti ndibaba vacho, kwete mwanasikana wavo, aizvibata noudyire.
Ini ndaifunga kuti wanga wangotsamwiswa nemari - asi zvikonzero zvako zvinokuita iwe [iyo ******], mumwe mutauri akanyora . Haana mhosva yekusiya zviroto zvake kubatsira kurera hanzvadzi yake. Hanzvadzi yake harisi basa rake - mwana wako, basa rako.
Hapana mhosva asi zvinoita sekunge imi varume muri kuzvida uye munofanira kumurega azvisarudzire, mumwe akawedzera . Kuendawo kuchikoro che ivy League chaakashanda nesimba kunobhadhara nekuwanawo mabasa. Ingomusiya afare uye edza kumufadza.
Vamwe, zvakadaro, vainzwira tsitsi, vachinyora kuti vainzwisisa kwaibva baba vachiri kumukurudzira kuti atsigire sarudzo yemwanasikana wake.
Kana izvi zviri zviroto zvake uye zvichikwanisika, regai azviite. Iwe haugone kugara uchifunga nezve 'ko kana' uye uchifunga kuti anogona kukuvara / kurwara uye anoda kudzoka kumba, mumwe mushandisi akanyora .
Akapinda mune chimwe chezvikoro zvakanakisa pasi rose. Iko kurudziro kumunin'ina wake uye kwete kumunyima chero chinhu, mumwe akati .
Kana waifarira nyaya iyi, tarisa MuChinyorwa cheZiva pamudzidzi uyo ndakumbira zano mushure mekunzi rusaruraganda panguva yekirasi yake yepamhepo.
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