Kiyi yekurara zvakanaka usiku? Usafunge nezve pink elephants . Kwete, iyi haisi yekushambadza yeitsva Dumbo bhaisikopo. Izano rinogona kupedza kushaya hope kwako zvachose.
Saka Chii Chaizvo Chiri Paradoxical Intention?
Zvinoitika kuti chakavanzika chekuwana kusimba kwakasimba kwekuvhara-ziso kunogona kuve mune reverse psychology. Maererano ne chiremba wepfungwa Arash Emamzadeh , chaunofanira kuita kuti urare edza nepaunogona napo kuti urambe wakamuka .
Saka Paradoxical Intention Inoshanda Sei?
Mashandiro azvinoita ndeokuti pachinzvimbo chekuti uedze kuzvimanikidza kurara ('Ndinogona kuwana maawa matanhatu ... maawa mashanu ... kana ndikarara ikozvino ndinogona kuwana maawa mana'), unoedza kugara. muka kwenguva yakareba sezvaunokwanisa, Emamzadeh anonyora mukati Psychology Nhasi . Paradoxical vavariro haipokane nevavariro yekushushikana (yekuyedza kuzvimanikidza kurara), asi inoitungamira kune yakapesana (yakananga kuzvimanikidza kuti urambe wakamuka).
Kusava nechokwadi here? Funga kumashure pawaizoedza kunonoka kukwira bvunzo kana kupedza bepa panguva yekusekondari, kana kuti wainzwa sei uchiedza kuchengeta maziso ako akasvinura panguva yekukurukurirana-kunonoka-husiku newaunogara naye kukoreji. Pamwe wainzwa kunge hope dzakuvharira uye waive usina simba rekuzvirwisa. Wanga uchizvimanikidza kuramba wakamuka, anonyora Emamzadeh, asi pakupedzisira kubvumidzwa hope kuti zviitike.
Saka nguva inotevera apo pfungwa dzako dzinomhanya pashure pepakati peusiku, usanetseka zvakanyanya kuti uende kunorara. Pane kudaro, rara pamubhedha uine chinangwa chekusamuka. Asi zvireve, anoyambira Emamzadeh. Iwe haugone kuinyepera, kana muviri uchaziva. Zvino, kana kana iwe ukanyatsonzwa hope dzichiuya, unogona kuzvibvumira kurara.
Ikozvino ndiyo brillia zvachose…ghgmgh. Chii? Tamuka. Tinopika.
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