Reshma Qureshi aingova nemakore gumi nemanomwe apo aimbove muramu wake akadurura asidhi kumeso kwake. Zvisinei, akaramba kuti chiitiko chacho chidzore ramangwana rake. Anogovera rwendo rwake naFemina.
'Ndakarambidzwa kurapwa kwemaawa mana. Ini nemhuri yangu takaenda kuzvipatara zviviri kuti tirapwe nokukurumidza asi takadzingwa nokuda kwokushayikwa kweMOTO. Tisina zvokuita uye tichida kubatsirwa nokukurumidza, takaenda kukamba yemapurisa, uye zvakazotevera kwaiva kwemaawa okubvunzurudza—nguva yose iyi chiso changu chaipisa nokuda kweasidhi. Ndipo pandakatanga kurutsa, mupurisa ane mutsa akatibatsira kuti tiite zvekurapwa. Zvisinei, panguva iyoyo ndakanga ndarasikirwa neziso. Reshma Qureshi anorondedzera dambudziko rinorwadza pfupa iro iye nemhuri yake vakasangana nemaminetsi mushure mekunge muramu wake, Jamaluddin, adira asidhi kumeso kwake muna Chivabvu 19, 2014.
Iye ane makore makumi maviri nemaviri ekuzvarwa akabva pamba (kuAllahabad) aine sisi Gulshan vari padhuze pazuva renjodzi. Paaifanirwa kunonyorera bvunzo yaAlimah, uyu aive mushishi kuti asvike kukamba yemapurisa sezvo mapurisa aive aona kwaive nemwanakomana wake aive apambwa neaimbova murume wake, Jamaluddin (vaviri ava vaive varambana chete. mavhiki mashoma chiitiko chisati chaitika). Nguva pfupi yapfuura, vaviri vacho vakabatwa naJamaluddin, akasvika panzvimbo iyi aine hama mbiri. Dzaona ngozi, hanzvadzi dzacho dzakaedza kutiza, asi Reshma akabatwa ndokudhonzerwa pasi. Akandidira acid kumeso kwangu. Ndinotenda, sisi vangu ndivo vainangwa asi, panguva iyoyo, ndakarwiswa, anodaro.
Nenguva isipi, nyika yake yakanga yaparara. Achingove nemakore 17 panguva iyoyo, chiitiko chacho hachina kumukuvadza chete mumuviri asi mupfungwa zvakare. Mhuri yangu yakaparara, uye sisi vangu vaingoramba vachizvipa mhosva pane zvakanga zvaitika kwandiri. Mwedzi yakati ndapedza kurapwa, pandakazviona ndiri mugirazi, handina kukwanisa kuziva musikana akamira ipapo. Zvaiita sekuti hupenyu hwangu hwainge hwapera. Ndakaedza kuzviuraya kakawanda; kunetseka, nhengo dzemhuri yangu dzakachinjana kuva neni 24 * 7, anotsanangura.
Chakaita kuti mugariro wacho uipire yakanga iri tsika yenzanga yokupa mhaka nokunyadzisa Reshma nokuda kwengwavaira yacho. Aihwanda chiso chake nekuda kwehunhu hwevanhu husina hanya. Ndakanangana nemibvunzo yakadai, ‘Nei akakurwisa neacid? Wakaitei?’ kana kuti ‘Murombo, ndiani achamuroora.’ Vakadzi vasina kuroorwa havana nguva yemberi here? anobvunza.
Reshma anoreurura dambudziko guru kune vakawirwa neacid kuitirwa chiseko munharaunda. Vanomanikidzwa kuhwanda kuseri kwemasuo akavharwa nekuti kazhinji, nhubu dzinozivikanwa kwavari. Muchokwadi, kungofanana nenyaya dzekubatwa chibharo, nhamba yakakwira yekurwiswa kweasidhi haitomboite kumafaira emapurisa. Vanhu vakati wandei vanofira mukukuvara kwavo FIR isati yamhan’arirwa, uye mapurisa akawanda mumisha anoramba kurekodha mhosva yacho nekuti vanenge vawirwa nenjodzi vanozivana nevanovarwisa.
Pakanga pari panguva ino iyo Ita Rudo Kwete Mavanga, asiri-purofiti anogadzirisa asidhi kurwisa vakapona pan India, yakauya sechikomborero mukuzvivanza. Vakabatsira mari yekuvhiyiwa kwake uye nguva pfupi yadarika, akagadziridzwa ziso muLos Angeles. NGO, pamwe chete nemhuri yangu, ndiyo yakanga iri gadziriro hurusa yorutsigiro munguva dzokuedza. Handikwanise kuvatenda zvakakwana pane zvese, anodaro. Nhasi, ane makore makumi maviri nemaviri ekuberekwa ndiye chiso cheIta Rudo Kwete Mavanga, uye mukuru wake, Tania Singh akabatsira Reshma kunyora memoir yake— Kuva Reshma , iyo yakabudiswa gore rakapera. Kuburikidza nebhuku rake, anovavarira kuita kuti vapukunyuki varwiswe asidi. Vanhu vanokanganwa zviso zviri seri kwenjodzi dzatinoverenga mazuva ose. Ndinovimba bhuku rangu rinokurudzira vanhu kuti varwe kuburikidza nenguva dzavo dzakaomesesa, uye vaone kuti zvakaipisisa zvinopera.
Reshma akamhan’arira vapari vemhosva, uye nyaya iri kuenderera mberi. Mumwe wavo akapihwa mutongo wakareruka kubvira achiri mudiki (17) pakaitika nyaya iyi. Akaburitswa gore rakapera. Iniwo ndaiva nemakore 17. Ndinobuda sei mumamiriro ezvinhu andaiswa? anodaro. Mupukunyuki anopokana kuti nepo mitemo inodzivirira vanorwiswa neacid iripo, kuita idambudziko. Tinofanira kuisa mari mumajeri akawanda uye nematare edzimhosva. Kusarira shure kwemhosva kwakakura zvekuti hapana muenzaniso uri kuisirwa vapari vemhosva. Kana paine kutya kwemhedzisiro, vapari vemhosva vachafunga kaviri vasati vapara mhosva. MuIndia, nyaya dzinoramba dzichienderera mberi kwemakore, matsotsi anobuda pabhero uye anokurumidza kuburitswa kuti agadzirire vasungwa vatsva, anotsanangura kudaro Reshma.
Pange pave nemakore mashanu kubva pakurwisa uku, uye nhasi, Reshma akazvipira kudzidzisa avo vakamupoteredza nezve chiitiko ichi chinotyisa uye kurwadzisa kwazvinoita kune vanopona. Kuedza kwake kuchinangwa kwakamupa mukana wekufamba munhandare yeNew York Fashion Week muna 2016, zvichimuita wekutanga kupukunyuka asidhi kuita kudaro. Ndangariro dzepuratifomu, Reshma anobvuma, dzichagara dzakadzika mumwoyo make. Muenzaniso unofanirwa kuva wakakwana-runako, mutete, uye kureba. Ndakafamba nzira huru zvikuru pasinei nokuti ndakanga ndapona pakurwisa asidi, uye zvakandiratidza simba rokushinga uye simba rorunako chairwo, anodaro.
Reshma munyori, modhi, anti-asidi mushandirapamwe, kumeso kweNGO, uye akapona acid-attack. Mumakore anotevera, anoda kuva mutambi. Kutarisana nenjodzi kunogona kutora ushingi hwako hwese, asi munhu anofanira kuyeuka kuti kune imwe nzvimbo mune ramangwana mazuva auchazoseka zvakare, mazuva auchakanganwa kurwadziwa kwako, mazuva auchafara kuti uri mupenyu. Ichauya, zvishoma nezvishoma uye zvinorwadza, asi iwe uchararama zvakare, anogumisa.
