Iwe unoda mumwe wako zvakanyanya, asi dzimwe nguva ungangoda kumukanda pamawere. Zvakadaro, urikuda kuziva: Chii chakavanzika chekubudirira kwenguva refu? Zvakanaka, dhiyabhorosi ari mune zvakadzama, hongu. Maererano nevatsvakurudzi, vakaroorana vanofara vanowanzoita zvinhu zvishanu izvi.
1. Vanoisa Pokutanga Tsika Dzakanaka
Makagara pamwe kwenguva yakareba sei? Zvechokwadi zviri nyore kukanganwa kuti ndapota uye mazvita paunokumbira mumwe wako kupfuudza munyu kana kubata gonhi. Asi vakaroorana vari muukama hwakasimba vanoti kuedza kwakabatana kugara vachiratidza kuonga chimwe chinhu chinoita kuti pave nomusiyano wose kana zvasvika pakubatana kunofadza (uye kwenguva refu). Muchokwadi, chidzidzo chakaburitswa mujenari Hukama Hwega akawana kuti kuratidza kuonga chinhu chinokosha kumuchato une utano uye unobudirira uye kuti chiito chiri nyore chokutaura kuti mazvita kumudiwa wako chinogona kuva chakasimba zvakakwana kudzivisa kuvadziko kunyange kurwa kwokuputika. (Hakusi kuti kangani kamunopopotedzana, asi mabatiro amunoitirana kana muchipopotedzana ndiwo akakosha, vanyori vezvidzidzo vanotsanangura.)
2. Havana kuwandisa online
Tose tine avo shamwari dzinomhanya pamhepo nezve chiitiko chega chega. Chiitiko chekutanga? Sweet. Yekutanga yegore renguva yawakatanga kugovera ice cream makoni pamwe chete? Hmm, zvishoma fungidziro. Maererano ne vaongorori paHaverford College , kana mumwe munhu asina kuchengeteka anonzwa nezvehukama hwavo, zvakanyanya mukana wekutumira pasocial media nezvazvo kuti zvisimbiswe. Mukupesana, vakaroorana vanofara vanofara zvikuru kuchengeta nhanho dzinokosha vari voga.
3. Vanofara Kuedza Zvinhu Zvitsva
Iresitorendi iyo munhu wese anoziva zita rako chikamu chinogamuchirwa chekupfimbana kwenyu, asi vakaroorana vanogara vachiedza kusanganisa zvinhu vanofara muhukama, maererano. zvidzidzo zvakawanda zvinosanganisira imwe yakabudiswa neRutgers University . Chikonzero chacho? Novelty inoshanda-chiito chekungoita zvinhu zvitsva pamwe chete semurume nemukadzi kunobatsira kudzosa butterflies uye kumutsa iwo kemikari inokwira munzvimbo yemubairo yehuropi yako iyo yakakwira mumazuva ekutanga. Zvakare, kuzunungusa zvinhu hakuna kuoma sezvazvinonzwika. Iwe haufanirwe kuzununguka kubva kune chandeliers. Ingoenda kune chikamu chitsva chetaundi, tora kutyaira munyika kana zviri nani zvakadaro, usaite zvirongwa uye ona zvinoitika kwauri, Dr. Helen E. Fisher weRutgers akaudza. Iyo New York Times .
4. Havana Mind PDA Diki
Kwete, hatisi kutaura nezvebonde manheru ega ega, asi vakaroorana vanofara ndivo vari A-OK nezviito zviduku zverudo rwemuviri. Chidzidzo mu Chinyorwa chePersonal uye Social Relationships inoshuma kuti kungotanga kubata-bata maoko, kumbundirana pasofa, kumbundirana-kunogona kuratidza kune mumwe wako kuti pane chishuwo chekuva pedyo.
5. Havasiyi Ndiro muSink
Vakawanda vakaroorana vanoisa izvi sechipfuwo chavo chekutanga, asi vakaroorana vanogara pamwe chete vanoita basa rekudya pamwe chete, maererano ne Pew Research poll . Zvose zvinouya pakuedza pamwe chete kutora mabasa epamba (izvo zvinoshandawo sechiziviso chekuti zvingatora nguva sei). Saka, iyo cereal ndiro yawakasiya sink-side iyo inotora masekondi maviri kuti igezwe? Ingo zviita. Wanano ine mufaro mukuru ndiwo mubayiro wako.
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