Kana zvasvika pamatambiro emwana wako, zvinobuda kuti hazvisi zvese zvinongonakidza nemitambo. Maererano nenyanzvi yezvemagariro evanhu Mildred Parten Newhall , pane zvinhanho zvitanhatu zvakasiyana zvekutamba kubvira paucheche kusvika kuchikoro—uye chimwe nechimwe chinopa mukana wokuti mwana wako adzidze zvidzidzo zvinokosha nezvake nenyika. Kujairana nemhando idzi dzakasiyana dzekutamba kunogona kukubatsira kuti unzwe wakasununguka nemafambiro emwana wako (Hei, kushushikana kwechitima kwakajairika!) pamwe nekuziva maitiro ekuita naye zviri nani.
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Andy445/Getty ImagesUnoccupied Play
Unoyeuka apo zero yako kusvika kumakore maviri ekuberekwa aifara zvakakwana akagara mukona uye achitamba netsoka dzake? Kunyangwe zvisingaite senge ari kuita zvakawanda pane chero chinhu, tot yako iri kutobatikana nekutora nyika yakamutenderedza ( oo, zvigunwe!) uye kucherechedza. Kutamba kusina basa inhanho yakakosha inomugadzirira ramangwana (uye rinoshanda) nguva yekutamba. Saka pamwe chengetedza izvo matoyi matsva anodhura kuitira paanenge achifarira zvishoma.
Ferrantraite / Getty MifananidzoPlay Wega
Kana mwana wako ari kutamba zvekuti haaone mumwe munhu, wapinda munhanho yekutamba yega kana yakazvimirira, iyo inowanzo ratidza makore maviri nematatu. Mhando iyi yekutamba inosiyana zvakanyanya zvichienderana nemwana, asi inogona kunge iri apo mudiki wako akagara akanyarara nebhuku kana kutamba nemhuka yake yaanofarira. Kutamba uri wega kunodzidzisa vana maitiro ekuzvivaraidza uye kuzviriritira (uyezve inokupa iwe nguva yakakosha kwauri).
Juanmonino/Getty MifananidzoMutariri anotamba
Kana Lucy akatarisa vamwe vana vachikwira siraidhi kanokwana ka16 asi asingabatanidzi mumafaro, usazvinetse nezvehunyanzvi hwake hwekushamwaridzana. Achangopinda munhandare yevacherechedzi, inowanzoitika panguva imwe chete kutamba ari ega uye inotova nhanho yakakosha yekutanga kutora chikamu cheboka. (Funga nezvazvo sekudzidza mitemo usati wasvetukira mukati.) Mutambo weanoona unowanzoitika makore maviri nehafu kusvika kumatatu nehafu.
asiseeit/Getty ImagesParallel play
Unozoziva kuti mwana wako ari muchikamu chino (kazhinji ari pakati pemakore maviri nehafu nematatu nehafu) apo iye neshamwari dzake vanotamba nematoyi mamwe chete. parutivi mumwe nomumwe asi kwete pamwe imwe neimwe. Izvi hazvireve kuti ivo vakasununguka. Muchokwadi, ivo vangangove vaine bhora (kunyangwe chitoyi changu! kutsamwa hakudzivisiki-ndine urombo). Hezvino zvaari kudzidza: Majana ekuchinjana, kuteerera vamwe uye kutevedzera maitiro anoita seanobatsira kana kuti anonakidza.
FatCamera / Getty MifananidzoAsociative Play
Danho iri rinotaridzika zvakafanana nekutamba kwakafanana asi rinoratidzwa nekudyidzana kwemwana wako nevamwe pasina kubatana (uye zvinowanzoitika pakati pemakore matatu nemana). Funga: vana vaviri vakagara padivi padivi vachivaka guta reLego…asi vachishanda pazvivakwa zvavo. Uyu mukana wakanaka wekuzivisa hunyanzvi hwakakosha sekushandira pamwe nekutaurirana. (Ona kuti shongwe yako inokwana sei zvakanaka pamusoro peshongwe yaTyler?)
FatCamera / Getty MifananidzoKudyidzana kutamba
Apo vana vanenge vagadzirira kutamba pamwe chete (kazhinji panguva yavanotanga chikoro pazera remakore mana kana mashanu), vasvika padanho rekupedzisira redzidziso yaParten. Apa ndipo apo mitambo yechikwata kana mitambo yeboka inova yakanyanyisa kunakidza (kune vana vari kutamba uye kuvabereki vachiona). Ikozvino vagadzirira kushandisa hunyanzvi hwavakadzidza (sekushamwaridzana, kutaurirana, kugadzirisa matambudziko nekudyidzana) kune zvimwe zvikamu zvehupenyu hwavo uye vanove vanoshanda zvizere vadiki vakuru (zvakanaka, zvakada).
