Zvakanaka, saka wakataura zvisizvo zita raKamala Harris kamwe. Hapana dambudziko - zvinoitika. Vice President vakatoita ku panguva yenhimbe yake yekudzidzisa vanhu matauriro ezita rake. ( Pisst : Zvinonzi Comma-Lah). Zvino, unogona kutenderedza maziso ako wobvunza, Inyaya hombe zvechokwadi here? Spoiler alert: Hongu. Ehe iri. Heino chikonzero nei zvakakosha kuita zvaunogona kutaura zita raKamala Harris-uye zvese BIPOC mazita echinhu ichocho-zvozvo.
1. Uh, ndiye mutevedzeri wemutungamiri weUnited States
Pakave ne48 United States vatevedzeri vemutungamiri pamberi paHarris. Isu takakwanisa kutaura mazita aJoe Biden, Dick Cheney naAl Gore zviri nyore. Saka sei zvakaoma kutaura Kamala nemazvo? Zvingave zvine chekuita nenyaya yekuti Harris haasi mukadzi chete asi mukadzi ane ruvara? Unobheja. Isu tinopa: The double standard. Tine kunzwa kuti unogona kutaura mazita akaita saTimothee Chalamet, Renee Zellweger uye kunyange ekunyepedzera mazita mazita saDaenerys Targaryen. Saka iwe unogona, uye iwe unofanirwa, kudzidza kutaura zita remumwe weakanyanya kukosha nhamba munyika, mutevedzeri wemutungamiri weUnited States.
2. Inodarika Kamala Harris
Vanhu vazhinji havaedzi kuyedza kududza zita remumwe munhu zvisirizvo. Asi kana ukasatora matanho ekuzvigadzirisa, uri kuudza nyika, Tarisai, zita iri rakaoma, uye handinganetseke kuti ndizvione. Uku kusada kuita zvakanaka nemutevedzeri wemutungamiri weUnited States kunoratidza kuti kana usingakwanise kuwana her zita chairo, sei uchifunga nezveBIPOC yemazuva ese muhupenyu hwako kana kunyange vamwe vanozivikanwa (saUzoamaka Aduba, Hasan Minaj, Mahershala Ali kana Quvenzhane Wallis)?
3. Icho chinokuvadza microaggression
Hei, kusarura kwako kwakajeka kuri kuratidza. Kana iwe wakambotaura chimwe chinhu chakadai, ini ndichakudana iwe XYZ 'kumunhu ane ruvara kana kungofunga kuomerera nekusadudza nekuti zvinonetsa kuita neimwe nzira, uri kuratidza kuti iwe-zvichida usingazivi. - ona munhu uyu semumwe munhu kana kuti mudiki. Izvi a microaggression , izvo zvinonyadzisa BIPOC kuti inyarare kana kugadzirisa zita ravo kuti rikwane.
Uye haisi maonero edu ekuzvininipisa chete. Tsvagiridzo inoratidza kuti vanhu vanobata fungidziro uye kusarura kwemamwe mazita kunyangwe munhu asati awana mukana wekuzvisuma. Maererano ne National Bureau of Economic Research , vanhu vane 'mazita evatema' vaiva nenguva yakaoma zvikuru kuwana basa kana kuti kufonerwa kupfuura vanhu vane 'mazita evachena.'
Uye padanho rako pachako, unogona kunge uchikuvadza vanhu vari mudenderedzwa rako. Paunodaidza Kamala Harris Ka-MAH-lah kunyangwe wagadziriswa, uri kuratidza vanhu vakakukomberedza kuti kunyangwe munhu ane rukudzo uye chiremera semunhu aripo muhofisi yemutevedzeri wemutungamiri mudiki-kupfuura nekuda kwetsika yavo. kana ruvara rweganda. Mupfungwa iyoyo, unogona kunge uri kuraira avo vakakukomberedza wo bata vanhu vemavara neruremekedzo rushoma kana kuti kunyange kudzidzisa vanhu vane ruvara munharaunda yako yepesvedzero kuti havakodzeri ruremekedzo rwako.
Zvakanaka, saka tingaite sei zvirinani?
Shoko rimwe: Bvunza. Chinhu chakanakisa chaungaita kutaurirana uye kubvunza mibvunzo yakakodzera. Hatigone kugadzira nzvimbo dzinosanganisirwa kana tikasafunga nezvekusaziva kwakapoteredza mazita evanhu. Hezvino zvinhu zvishoma zvekufunga nezvazvo:
- Bvunza mumwe munhu kuti anodudza sei zita rake. Tanga nokuti, 'Ndine urombo. Ndinoda kuzvigadzirisa. Unodudza sei zita rako?' kana kuti 'Munoda kuti nditaure sei zita renyu?' Zvinogona kuita kuti mumwe munhu anzwe achibatanidzwa uye achiremekedzwa. Uri kutora danho rekudaidza munhu nezita rake chairo. Kana vakadekara, vakumbire kuti vazviputsire pasi nefonetiki uye nyatsoteerera kuti vanozvitaura sei.
- Zvakanaka kubvunza zvakare. Wakambosangana nemunhu iyeye kamwe chete uye hauna kuvaona kwemumwe mwedzi. Zvakanaka kubvunza kuti ungataura sei zita ravo zvakare. 'Unonetseka here kudzokorora nzira yaunotaura nayo zita rako zvakare?' Zvinoita kuti vazive kuti iwe unoda kuwana mataurirwo chaiwo. Zvakanaka kukumbira ruregerero kana kuita kuti mumwe munhu azive kuti wakanganisa asi kuti unoda kudzidza.
- Usanyanya kuongorora mazita avo. Usatora munhu semunhu ari kunze kwenyika. Huge no-nos dzinosanganisira, 'Zita iroro rinobva kupi?' 'Zita rinoshamisa kudaro. Ndinochida.' 'Boss vako, shamwari kana amai vako vanozvitaura sei? Zvakaoma hazvo.' Izvo hazviuye sekuda kuziva, zvinouya senge zvinotsausa uye zvinoita kuti vanzwe semumwe.
- Usapa zita remadunhurirwa. Ndapota usazvitore iwe kudaidza munhu nerimwe zita kana remadunhurirwa (pasina mvumo yavo). Unganzwa sei kana mumwe munhu akatanga kukudaidza zita rakasiyana zvachose nekuti aisanzwa kuda kudzidza rako?
Tese tinokanganisa, asi isu hatigone kufuratira kuipa kwekusadudza mazita eBIPOC zvisizvo. Mazita ane zvaanoreva, kuzivikanwa uye tsika, uye isu tinofanirwa kuremekedza kuti kunyangwe zvichiratidzika zvakasiyana zvakanyanya nekunzwisisa kwedu.
Saka hongu, ndiMutevedzeri weMutungamiri Kamala (Comma-lah) Harris.
